Ellen Louisa Cole (1874-1943)

On this day September 28 in 1943, my great-grandmother Ellen Louisa was buried at Woronora Cemetery, New South Wales. Although born a Cole she had been married twice, firstly to my great-grandfather, Alfred Charles Bray, and sometime after his death to Walter Clark, but that is part of her story.

Ellen Louisa was born on January 22, 1874 on the large rural property, Gidleigh, near Bungendore NSW. Both of Ellen’s parents, Frederick William Cole and Ellen (nee) McFarlane were also born in NSW and were married at St. Phillip’s church in Bungendore. Ellen Louisa was the tenth of their nineteen children, although not all of them lived to adulthood.

Frederick was a sawyer and labourer who worked on several properties in the area near Bungendore including Foxlox and Carwoola as well as Gidleigh. We can only imagine that both his wife and children would have been engaged in work in those properties. As quite large rural stations these supported sizeable communities and facilities such as a school which Ellen Louisa would have no doubt attended.

Ellen Louisa Bray

By the age of twenty years Ellen Louisa was to be found at Balmain in Sydney when she married Alfred Charles Bray at St. Thomas’s church in Balmain South on February 15, 1894 with the permission of her father. At the time Alfred was a sorter at the General Post Office but later became a mail train guard and as a result the young couple moved several times while raising their family. Hurstville had become the Bray family home where they had settled with their eight children when tragedy struck.

Alfred Charles Bray – Funeral Notice

On the foggy night of March 16, 1914, the mail train on which Alfred was working collided with another train at Exeter in the Southern Highlands killing 14 people including Alfred. At the time it was the worst rail disaster experienced in the country. Ellen Louisa was left with several children still at home but was eventually granted some compensation for herself and the younger children. She continued to live at Hurstville and was remembered as a strong woman that is no doubt a result of her early years in the bush.

In 1923, at the age of 49 years, she married widower and tramway employee, Walter Clark at Redfern. It is believed that she outlived Walter because she was again living at Hurstville when as Ellen Louisa Clark died at the age of 69 years. She was buried next to Alfred Charles Bray at Woronora.

Harry Cornelius Bray (1847-1923)

 

On this day, September 19 in 1923, Henry Cornelius Bray my 2nd great-grandfather died at his home in Woids Avenue, Hurstville, NSW, and was buried the following day at Woronora Cemetery. He was 76 years old.

Harry was born on July 2, 1847 at Portsmouth, Hampshire, England. His parents were Cornelius and Mary Ann (Hayles) Bray both natives of Portsea. Cornelius had been a mariner at the time of their marriage but when Harry was born he was recorded as a baker and grocer.

Harry was christened at St. Mary’s church, Portsea with his older sister, also Mary Ann, in October the same year. As far as we know he was christened Harry and not Henry, and he certainly carried that name throughout his life and passed in on to two more generations.

In about 1853, when Harry was just six years old, Cornelius and his family emigrated to New South Wales together with his brother George and his family. The reason for this big move will probably never be known, certainly there does not appear to be any evidence that they were tempted by gold fever. In Sydney he was later known to be a cordial maker.

Harry Cornelius and Mary Bannatyne Bray

Young Harry was a driver of a baker’s cart when in 1870 he married Mary Bannatyne Armitage. Mary was the third daughter of Joseph and Martha (Files) Armitage who were shipped out to New South Wales under the equivalent of witness protection following riots and a death in the Chartist uprising in Ashton under Lyne, Lancashire. Mary was born on the ship Mary Bannatyne, in the English Channel shortly after weighing anchor for their new homeland, and named after that ship.

Harry continued working as a carter or van driver throughout his life and with Mary raised eight children living at various locations in the Redfern and Alexandria areas.

Harry Cornelius Bray and his buggy

By the turn of the century the family had moved to Hurstville on a large property with several blocks back to back with frontages in both Woids Avenue and Bellevue Parade. They remained there the rest of their lives.

After Mary’s father died in 1862, her mother lived with them at Hurstville, as did some of her children.

When Mary died in 1926 she was buried at Woronora next to Harry Cornelius.

Note: My thanks to cousin Neville Bray for much of the research and photos. Neville has a website for Australian Bray Families at www.brayfamilies.id.au